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Prioritizing Mother's Wellness: Mindset Shift and Daily Self-Care

August 24, 20243 min read

Prioritizing Mother's Wellness: Mindset Shift and Daily Self-Care

Are you a mom who feels guilty every time you take a moment for yourself? Imagine the freedom of breaking away from that guilt and embracing self-care as a vital part of your routine. 

As a physician, In 2018, I decided to change my career and stay at home with my kids. Initially, it was a struggle to carve out "me time" because I thought that as a mother, I needed always to put my kids first. For five years, I neglected my own wellness, believing that being available for my children 24/7 was the best way to show my love and dedication. However, this mindset only led to burnout and diminished well-being.

Eventually, I realized that prioritizing my wellness was not only beneficial but essential. By taking care of myself first, I discovered that I could take care of my kids and my husband better. This perspective shift made me a more patient, energetic, and happier mother and wife!

Tips to help you shift your mindset and prioritize self-care daily

Here are some actionable tips to help you shift your mindset and prioritize self-care daily.

1. Schedule "Me Time" Daily

Just like you would schedule a doctor's appointment or a work meeting, schedule your self-care time. Whether it's 15 minutes of meditation, a quick walk in the park, or reading a book, make sure it's on your calendar and treat it as non-negotiable!

2. Create a Support System

Surround yourself with people who understand the importance of your well-being. This could be understanding family members, friends, or even a community of like-minded moms. Having a support system ensures that you have encouragement and accountability. It's easier to prioritize your wellness when others are rooting for you and reminding you of its importance.

3. Practice Mindfulness

Mindfulness can transform your self-care routine by helping you stay present and appreciate those moments of calm. Mindfulness can be as simple as sitting quietly for a few minutes, focusing on your breath, or savouring a warm mug of tea or coffee while paying attention to the warmth of the mug in your hands. This habit can lower stress and enhance your emotional well-being. 

4. Set Boundaries4

It's crucial to set boundaries with your time and energy. Learn to say no to requests or commitments that don't serve your well-being or align with your priorities. Setting boundaries is an act of self-love. It ensures you have enough time and energy for the things that truly matter, including your self-care.


Benefits in Personal and Motherhood Life

Personal Benefits

When you prioritize your wellness, you'll notice increased energy, better mental health, and greater fulfillment. You'll be more present in your relationships and daily activities.

Motherhood Benefits

A happier, healthier mom means a happier, healthier family! When you take care of yourself, you're setting a positive example for your children. They learn the importance of self-care by watching you prioritize it. Plus, you'll have more patience, creativity, and energy to engage with them.

Prioritizing your wellness isn't just about you—it's about creating a positive ripple effect that benefits everyone around you. Moms deserve to feel their best. Embrace self-care moments without guilt and observe how personal and family life flourishes.

Ready to make a change? Start prioritizing your wellness today and see the difference it makes in your life and your family's lives! Share this blog with other moms who need to hear this message, and let’s create a community of empowered, healthy, and happy mothers.

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GERALDINE

A devoted mother to three beautiful girls, a former physician from the Philippines, and a passionate coach dedicated to empowering mothers with small children. My journey from practicing medicine to moving to Canada in 2014 with my husband has been filled with love, learning, and discovering my true calling: to support and uplift mothers in their unique journeys.Before fully stepping into my coaching journey, I gained valuable experience working with a Mental Health and Addiction Recovery Program for the government and volunteering at my local Crisis Line, including Talk Suicide Programs. These experiences granted me the privilege of connecting with people, particularly mothers from all walks of life and witnessing firsthand the challenges and triumphs of motherhood.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What can I expect from life coaching for mothers, and what outcomes can I expect at the end of the coaching session?

My coaching for mothers focuses on helping you cultivate the mindset and habits necessary for a healthier life. By the end of our sessions, you can expect to achieve your specific goals tailored to your needs, along with developing the mindset and healthy habits required to reach them. With my holistic approach drawing from medicine and counseling, I provide guidance, motivation, and proven strategies for transformative outcomes. Your commitment and active participation are key to our journey toward positive change. I look forward to partnering with you on this empowering path.

What can I expect during my first free coaching session?

Your first free coaching session is a friendly meet and greet where we get to know each other. It's an opportunity to explore if we're the right fit for your transformative journey. There's no obligation to sign up for my coaching program during this session. Let's connect and see if we resonate. I look forward to the possibility of working together to help you thrive.

What are the products and services you in your coaching?

I offer personalized one-on-one coaching sessions for mothers over 3-6 months, as well as flexible per hour coaching services. Additionally, I conduct transformative group coaching sessions for a collaborative six-week program. These services are designed to support your journey towards a healthier and happier life. Feel free to reach out for more information or to explore these options further. I look forward to working together to help you thrive.

How long does it typically take to see results from life coaching for mothers?

Although some of my clients experience results after the first session, others may see progress after a few weeks or even a month. The timeline for results truly depends on the effort and dedication you put into the process. In most cases, moms tend to experience significant results or find inspiration after about two weeks of coaching with me. It's important to note that every mom's needs and circumstances are unique, and the pace of progress can vary accordingly.

What other products and services do you have?

I offer keynote speaking for women's conferences and workshops for various groups, including young people. I am flexible in my approach and can tailor my presentations to suit the specific needs of the audience. Topics include intentional living, parenting, budgeting, cultivating a healthy mindset, and more. Connect with me on social media for daily inspiration. Interested in booking me or staying connected? Reach out to inspire and empower your audience!

What are your credentials and what sets you apart as a mom coach?

As a mother myself, I lead by example and embody the principles I teach. With a background as a physician, I bring a unique perspective to coaching. Additionally, my experience in counseling, particularly in action planning and crisis intervention on suicide hotlines, has equipped me with valuable skills in supporting individuals during challenging times. I take a holistic approach to coaching, offering tailored support based on each client's needs. I meet clients where they are, motivating them to push forward and holding them accountable to overcome barriers.

How much is the cost of your coaching program?

The cost of my coaching program varies based on the services offered. I prioritize my client's needs and offer flexible payment options. If you're not satisfied within 30 days, I provide a money-back guarantee to ensure your investment adds value to your life.